Bereavement

In times of bereavement

In the unfortunate event that a person has passed away, there are three things that must be done in the first few days;

  • Get a medical certificate from your GP or hospital doctor (this is necessary to register the death)
  • Register the death within 5 days (8 days in Scotland). You will then receive the necessary documents for the funeral.
  • Make the necessary funeral arrangements.
Register the death

permission before registering the death.

You can register the death if you are a relative, a witness to the death, a hospital administrator or the person making the arrangements with the funeral directors.

You can use the ‘Register a Death’ page on the gov.uk website that will guide you through the process. This will also explain the registration process for Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Arrange the funeral

The funeral can usually only take place after the death is registered. Most people use a funeral director, though you can arrange a funeral yourself.

Funeral directors

Choose a funeral director who’s a member of one of the following:

  • National Association of Funeral Directors
  • National Federation of Funeral Directors
  • Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors

These organisations have codes of practice – they must give you a price list when asked.

Some local councils run their own funeral services, for example for non-religious burials. The British Humanist Association can also help with non-religious funerals.

Arranging the funeral yourself

Contact the Cemeteries and Crematorium Department of your local council to arrange a funeral yourself.

Funeral costs

Funeral costs can include:

  • funeral director fees
  • things the funeral director pays for on your behalf (called ‘disbursements’ or ‘third-party costs’), for example, crematorium or cemetery fees, or a newspaper announcement about the death
  • local authority burial or cremation fees

Funeral directors may list all these costs in their quotes.

Other resources

  • Ashgate Hospicecare’s Virtual Drop-In for Adults and Carers

    Are you bereaved or caring for someone, feeling a little isolated or lonely and would like to meet others in similar situations? Then join Ashgate Hospicecare’s virtual weekly drop-in for a friendly, informal and relaxed conversation for people living in Bolsover. They would love to see you.

    Starting on the 27th of January 2021
    Wednesdays from 2pm to 3:30pm.

    For more information about their virtual group or to register your interest, please contact Joanne Gregory, Group Facilitator, Supportive Care Team at Ashgate Hospicecare.

    Email
    joanne.gregory@ashgatehospicecare.org.uk

  • The Compassionate Friends

    TCF offers support after the death of a child of any age and from any cause.

    Phone
    0345 123 2304

    Website
    www.tcf.org.uk

    Email
    helpline@tcf.org.uk

  • Royal Derby Hospital

    The bereavement service provides a sensitive, empathetic approach to the individual needs of relatives, at a time of loss.

    Website
    www.uhdb.nhs.uk/bereavement-services-royal-derby-hospital

  • Cruse Bereavement Care

    Cruse offers support, advice and information to children, young people and adults when someone dies.

    Phone
    01332 332098

    Website
    www.cruse.org.uk

    Email
    Derby@cruse.org.uk